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A 5 Step Plan for Taking Control of Your Life

Leadership skills are highly valued in our fast-paced, hustling culture. We look up to, emulate, and follow the advice of well-respected people who work hard, make tough decisions, and lead by example. But it’s not just organizations that need solid leaders. The most powerful place from which to lead is actually your own life. When’s the last time you felt fully in control of your life—on top of your to-do’s, aligned with your goals, fulfilled in every area of life that’s most important to you? This question isn’t meant to make you feel bad; it’s not easy (and not necessarily…

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How to Move Out & On After a Breakup: A Compassionate Guide

Today’s blog post is my response to a reader’s question regarding how to break up with someone you live with and what to do about moving on after a breakup. It all comes back to setting up respectful, clear boundaries after a relationship has ended. Read on for the full scoop. Dear TiLa, I moved to a new city last fall with my boyfriend of 2.5 years and everything seemed to change. We slowly started to grow apart and I decided I wanted different things out of life. So just a couple of weeks ago (after about 5 months of…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 7: Wrap-Up

Happy day 7! Can you believe we’ve already made it to the end of the 7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love Challenge? You’ve been doing amazing—but we’re not done yet! We have much to do before we wrap up this incredible, love-inspired journey. Over the last 6 days, you have prepped the energetic field in your home for love by: Daydreaming about dining with your future partner—and buying food to prepare for it! Cleaning your bathroom and making it a lovely space for two to share. Adding life to your office by decorating with plants. Cleaning out…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 6: The Bedroom

Alright, love, tell the truth: Are you loving all the fun changes you’ve been making in your home? I hope you are! This was one of my favorite exercises to do, and I love doing this work with my clients, too. Because all of the tweaks and changes and fun, little additions you’re making aren’t just about your future partner—they’re about creating a space that makes you feel good. A space that you want to share with your person. Plus, when you feel good, you call in even more good. It’s just common sense to create a space that you…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 5: Living Room

How are you feeling? Wasn’t it nice to open up your clean closet this morning? Are you loving working with a beautiful plant on your desk? That’s the beauty of this work—it’s not just about calling a soulmate; it’s about creating a space that you love and that makes you feel love. It’s a win-win both right now and when you’re deep in love with your new partner! Today we’re going to spend some time in your living room. This may be yours alone or it may be a space you share with family or roommates—either way, you have the…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 4: Closets

Hello lovers, How are you? Are you feeling the love already? 🙂 We’re halfway through the 7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love Challenge today, and I promise you it gets even more fun from here! Today you’re going to be cleaning out your closets—literally. I know that may sound less like “fun” and more like “spring cleaning”, but it doesn’t have to be a chore! This is an opportunity to review all of your extra baggage (again, quite literally), and even clear out items that may keep you stuck in the past or are no longer serving…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 3: The Office

Hi, love! On Day 3 of the 7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love Challenge, we’re stepping inside of your office. We’re going to pay close attention to the place where you likely spend most of your waking hours, and get the most work done. And though love is often associated with the color red, today we’re going GREEN. Whether or not you have your own home office, work from a corporate office, or simply work from a tiny desk in the corner of your room, the fact remains that a lot of offices can be a little…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 2: The Bathroom

Did you have fun yesterday? Did you make anything delicious to eat, perhaps? 🙂 Don’t forget to share a photo with me and the rest of the challenge community on Instagram—tag @TiLaVenture and use #TTLoveHomePrep! One of the things you’re going to find out over the next few days is that calling in the love of your of your life starts with loving yourself—and your home and your food and your . . . bathroom! Yes, your bathroom—which is where we’re hanging out today. Obviously, this is one of the more private spaces in your home. But eventually, you’ll be…

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7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love ❤ Day 1: The Kitchen

Welcome to the first day of the 7 Ways to Prepare Your Home For New Love challenge! How are you feeling? Were you able to start clearing out the clutter yesterday? Comment below and let me know of a few of things you cleared out to make space for your new love—and to kick off this challenge! And speaking of this challenge, we’re getting started right away with one of the more delicious rooms in your home: the kitchen. For many, the kitchen is a room of creation, of nourishment, of relaxation and play. And it should be! But have…

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