How are you feeling? Wasn’t it nice to open up your clean closet this morning? Are you loving working with a beautiful plant on your desk?
That’s the beauty of this work—it’s not just about calling a soulmate; it’s about creating a space that you love and that makes you feel love. It’s a win-win both right now and when you’re deep in love with your new partner!
Today we’re going to spend some time in your living room. This may be yours alone or it may be a space you share with family or roommates—either way, you have the opportunity to make it your own.
Much like every other room of your home, it helps to make space and respect the room by keeping it clean. Clear out anything that no longer needs to be there—the artwork that no longer suits your style, the toys that should be up in the kids’ rooms, the magazines that you’ve yet to throw away because you haven’t read through them (but you know you never will)? Clear it out and make space for the things that bring you joy.
But cleaning up the space doesn’t mean taking the life out of it. Try using the living room for exactly what its name intends: living. Invite friends or family over for game nights or to catch up on your favorite show (“This Is Us”, amiright?). Start a puzzle with your roommates or buy a new book and keep it next to your favorite armchair, so you remember to pick it up as you drink your tea in the morning.
Most of all, I am really excited for you to try today’s action tip. This is about making a conscious effort to invite love and harmonious relationship into your space, and about creating a part of your most “lived-in” room that is dedicated to love—in all the myriad ways you can feel it.
Today’s Action Step: Add a relationship altar to your living room!
In feng shui, this is the southwest corner of the room, but you can pick whichever space works best for you. It doesn’t have to be ostentatious or obvious either (unless, of course, you want it to be).
Place items that represent love—either generally or specifically to you—on your altar:
- rose quartz stones,
- flower petals,
- candles, a photo of lovers embracing.
Make it unique to you and treat it with the reverence that you hold for your future partnership.
I would love to see a photo of your altar after you’ve set it up! Share your photos with me on Instagram – tag @TiLaVenture.
Sending you so much love!
